Does it make any sense?

We have come a long way since women were once all-submissive and always enclosed in the tiny space of their home and chained to the kitchens.

We are now educated, smart, well-read, exposed and very much independent in so many different ways in which we can all be proud of.

But still, one huge problem remains.

People are intimated by people who are independent and strong, especially women who are very much so.

People complain when women are too submissive and weak, and they still complain when they are independent and strong.

Yeah, so hard to please right?

Why is it so, that more often than not, others fail to realise that we are made to become independent because of society and strong because of circumstances. It's not because that we always wanted to be, but what we HAVE to be. That's a huge difference.

Nobody wants to be a bitch when they can be nice. Nobody would like to stress themselves out when they don't have to. Nobody would have to force themselves to be ever protective if it weren't for the threats.

Who would want to be that?

Another thing, when people are talented / well-groomed in various aspects, that makes that person different. So others fawn / envy / gets intimidated and shy away.

But a person is so much more than that.

If you take away the talent, the grooming and the glamour from a certain very talented person, does that make that someone worthless now?

Of course not.

So why make excuses that people can be too perfect, when in fact, they're just like everyone else.